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         <title>Comment by Phil (Guest)</title>
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         <description>My executor is also my porn buddy.  There are instructions in tshe note I have attached to my will.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I was a lower-grade porn buddy for a neighbor, once.  His Mom and I and some other folks were helping him pack for a move, and a snagged the one magazine he had hiding in his laundry room.  At first I thought I shouldn't mention it to avoid embarrassing him.  Then I realized that the greater sin would have been to *not* mention it which would have made him wonder for the rest of his life (a) where it had gone and (b) if his mom or daughter had been the one to find it.  So I told him.  He was grateful.  That was maybe ten years ago.  Now that I'm 38 and know more men who have aged into their 40s (like this guy at the time), there would be no hesitation.  Just a quick pulling aside and a "hey buddy, I got your back on the magazine.  I know you'd have done the same for me.")</description>
         <author>Phil (Guest)</author>
         <pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2005 16:40:47 +0000</pubDate>
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         <title>Comment by Cori (Guest)</title>
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         <description>Thank you for explaining what a 'porn buddy' was. I had a moment of extreme 'ick' before I read the next sentence.</description>
         <author>Cori (Guest)</author>
         <pubDate>Tue, 28 Jun 2005 12:41:13 +0000</pubDate>
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         <title>Comment by Ken</title>
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         <description>Sonja, I just swooned a little, just now.  :)</description>
         <author>Ken</author>
         <pubDate>Mon, 27 Jun 2005 11:40:57 +0000</pubDate>
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         <title>Comment by Sonja (Guest)</title>
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         <description>Grammar and spelling are far more important than a clean house. At least that's what I keep telling myself.</description>
         <author>Sonja (Guest)</author>
         <pubDate>Mon, 27 Jun 2005 11:03:50 +0000</pubDate>
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         <title>Caring</title>
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         <description>Weekend of lumpitude, Part II.&lt;br/&gt;</description>
         <author>Ken</author>
         <pubDate>Sun, 26 Jun 2005 22:43:15 +0000</pubDate>
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